You might want to check out Western Mountaineering or Feathered Friends, they have some very nice ultralight 3 season (and 4 season) down bags and will custom fill bags upon request. I have an old WM iriquois 38deg down bag that is great. and also a 5deg WM Antelope SMF bag for mild winter backpacking.
I am fairly short myself at 5'5" which is great for sleeping bags as you can fit the lighter short models.
Mountain Hardware Phantom line are good too, I have a Phantom down jacket I use for winter backpacking... Most likely cheaper than the custom bag makers like WM/FF
Jay