- Do I need Mapsource (or basecamp etc...) or will Topofusion suffice?
Well, I'm biased here, but there is one thing TopoFusion can't do, which is upload vector base maps. It can upload any of the image types in TopoFusion as 'custom maps' but for longer bikepacking routes you might need the greater coverage of the vector based stuff. However, there are free vector maps out there for many states, and you can use Mapsource for free to upload them.
Otherwise, yeah, stick to TopoFusion.
- How do I choose whether to store tracks on the sd card or in memory?
When you transfer your own tracks to the Dakota you can put them in either place and they will be found by the unit. As far as I know, it will always log the current track you are recording into the file structure of the internal memory. Though I suppose I haven't tried to change it -- there might be a setting somewhere.
I recommend this site, which is full of all the details on the Oregon/Dakota that are not in the manual or really online anywhere else:
http://garminoregon.wikispaces.com/(Most things apply to both the Dakota and Oregon)
- Do you trust the bike mount?
Yes, so far so good on mine. I have done a lot of rough mountain biking and a fair amount of bikepacking as well. Haven't had it fall off. You do need to make sure the zip ties are tight so it doesn't rotate (isn't too loose).
Hope that helps a bit.