When you say you "tightened the bolt", are you meaning the top cap bolt, the single bolt going through a coin shaped/sized disc? The one on top of your stem? All that does is set the load on the headset bearings. Sounds like your stem pinch bolts are loose. First, loosen/tighten the top cap till the stearing is snug, but with no play. Not too tight. Then, line up your stem with the front tire, and tighten the stem pince bolts. That should take care of your problems.
This website picture shows the different bolts and stuff if you're unsure.
http://www.bikeradar.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=40073&t=12689155Hope that helps out.